who should we put the blame?

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i know this topic kinda ermm..sexually a bit i must say, but the topic caught my attention while reading the news. since it kinda related to what i have learned before so i thought why not ryte? i apologize for those who kinda conservative about this things to talk about.

sex education seems to be important but now days people didnt really care about it anymore cause for some of them using condom is good enough for them to practice so-called safe sex.

so who should we put our blame on? the girl who freely sell their body in term of needing money? or the guy that feel like a man by doing it?

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from the article, most of the man who did it said that they feel like a king because the girls treat them like a man which i dont really understand, because doesnt their wife and their girlfriend treat them like a man too? or ...?

there is a bad habit that i think most of us have, we tend to do something we do know it might give negative impact to us but we still tend to do it. easy to say we like to break the rule. who doesnt ryte? in this case also the same, most of us have been exposed through mass media about consequences of doing unhealthy sex but it doesnt stop them to do so. that is sad, its like we have been control by the thought of using condom can prevent the pregnancies and it is totally safe.

according to kidshealth.org, Condoms work by keeping semen (the fluid that contains sperm) from entering the vagina. The male condom is placed on a guy's penis when it becomes erect. It is unrolled all the way to the base of the penis while holding the tip of the condom to leave some extra room at the end. This creates a space for semen after ejaculation and makes it less likely that the condom will break. After the guy ejaculates, he should hold the condom at the base of the penis as he pulls out of the vagina. He must do this while the penis is still erect to prevent the condom from slipping off when he gets soft. If this happens, sperm could enter the vagina.

this means by using condom there still have a small percent of the semen could be enter the vagina if the person didnt use it properly or the condom may leak. due to that, these unhealthy activity caused the number of people infected by sexually transmitted disease is getting higher and higher.

Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are diseases that are mainly passed from one person to another (that is transmitted) during sex. There are at least 25 different sexually transmitted diseases with a range of different symptoms. These diseases may be spread through vaginal, anal and oral sex.

Most sexually transmitted diseases will only affect you if you have sexual contact with someone who has an STD. However there are some infections, for example scabies, which are referred to as STDs because they are most commonly transmitted sexually, but which can also be passed on in other ways.

doesnt anyone care?

MALAYSIAN HEALTH STATS

Birth rate, crude > per 1,000 people	21.38 per 1,000 people		[88th of 195]
Children Underweight Rate	1%		[94th of 95]
Drug access	50%		[136th of 163]
HIV AIDS > Adult prevalence rate	0.4%		[64th of 136]
HIV AIDS > Deaths	2,000		[57th of 102]
Hospital beds > per 1,000 people	1.9 per 1,000 people		[55th of 149]
Infant mortality rate	18.35		[99th of 179]
Life expectancy at birth > Female	75.94 years		[109th of 226]
Life expectancy at birth > Male	70.32 years		[107th of 226]
Life expectancy at birth > Total population	73.03 years		[108th of 225]
Malaria cases > per 100,000	57		[64th of 94]
Maternal mortality	41 per 100,000		[91st of 136]
Physicians > per 1,000 people	0.7 per 1,000 people		[69th of 148]
Probability of not reaching 40	5%		[100th of 111]
Smoking prevalence, males > % of adults	43 %		[10th of 42]
Spending > Per person	81		[77th of 133]
Tobacco > Cigarette consumption	910		[62nd of 106]
Tobacco > Total adult smokers	26.4		[69th of 121]
Total expenditure on health as % of GDP	3.8%		[161st of 185]
Water availability	26,105 cubic meters		[36th of 169]

MALAYSIA Epidemic estimates

Epidemiological Country

Profile on HIV and AIDS

Source: UNAIDS/WHO, 2008

do we really need to follow the westerners? where our dignity go? should we be like one of them? a lots of question pilling up which i cant answer by myself...i wonder..